10 top tips for supporting children’s wellbeing

A mother and young daughter reading a children's book in a library.

Mental health in childhood is simply about how children feel, think, and cope day to day.

Just as children grow physically, their mental health develops too. With the right support and safe environments, most children learn to feel positive in themselves, build confidence, and handle life’s challenges.

Here are 10 things you can do as a parent or guardian to support your child’s wellbeing:

1. Talk about your feelings

The more we talk about how we feel, the easier and more normalised it is for children to do the same.

2. Follow a daily routine

Consistency and daily habits help children feel secure because they know what to expect from their day-to-day lives.

A father helping his son ride a bike while the rest of the family walks behind.

3. Keep them active

Getting outdoors and burning off energy will do wonders for their mood – and yours! Try a family walk, a trip to the park or even an online exercise video on the rainy days.

4. Support their interests

Your enthusiasm motivates them to explore and expand their interests. This helps children to keep learning, which is one of the 5 ways to wellbeing.

5. Encourage them to join in

Things like joining a sports club or trying something creative are great ways for children to make friends and express themselves.

A boy playing football.

6. Help to build their confidence

Every time you praise them or show you trust them, you are helping them feel valued and worthy of respect.

7. Let them know you’re there for them

Your child may not want to talk yet or feel they have the language to express their feelings. Just knowing you care and are on their side is important.

8. Use other ways of communicating

If your child struggles to express emotions verbally, you could try texting, voice notes, drawing or even emojis.

A woman looking through a school book with a young teenage girl.

9. Avoid dismissing a child’s worries

It might not seem important, but to them, it means a lot. Try to listen carefully and reassure them that it’s ok to feel that way.

10. Reassure them it’s ok to talk to others

Your child may find it easier to speak to someone else, like another family member or a school counsellor. This can sometimes be difficult for parents but the important thing is that your child feels comfortable talking to someone they trust.

Where can I get support?

If you or your child are struggling with your mental health, reaching out for help is a really positive step.

Here are some places you can find support:

  • Your GP: A doctor can give advice and connect you with the right support for your child’s needs.
  • Action Mental Health: We offer counselling for children and young people, as well as resilience-building programmes in schools and community settings.
  • Childline: Children can get support 24/7 online at childline.org.uk or by calling 0800 1111.
  • Barnardo’s: Find advice and self-help tools for a range of issues at barnardos.org.uk
  • School staff: Speak to your child’s teacher, school counsellor, or pastoral care team.

For more information, activities and tools on supporting children’s wellbeing, check out our resource library for Children’s Mental Health Week 2026.


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